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Happy Mother’s Day!

This Sunday is Mother’s Day.

This year it has certainly crept up on us all. Everyone I knew thought it was next weekend!

I remember when I was a little girl, and Mum was helping me buy a present for my Grandmother for Mother’s Day, and I remember asking her, ‘Why are we buying something for Nan? You’re my Mum!’

I used to go to Girl’s Brigade when I was little. A Christian group that focused on developing a relationship with God, while making friends and overcoming challenges. And every year, they used to do a Mother’s Day night where we would make special gifts.

I remember our leader telling us this.

“It is Mother’s Day, but remember, this day is not just about Mother’s. It is about all the woman in your life that give it meaning. This can be your Aunt’s, your Grandmother’s, your Big Sisters, every womanly figure who has taught you, and helped in the development of becoming the kind, and good young woman that you are today.”

And she was right. My Mother, my Grandmother, and my Aunt, collectively, helped raised me, and made me into the responsible, level headed, driven woman that I am today.

They all taught me that I can do anything I want to do, be anything I want to be, that I do not have to slip into the role that later in life, many woman think that they are forced to do. That a woman can still raise a family, and educate herself at the same time. That you can still be a good wife, and have a job that you have worked, and studied so hard for. That you can rise up and up in the workplace, and still manage a smooth household.

They’ve taught me how to cook, and clean, and how to study properly, and how to have fun, and how to fix my clothes, how to get food coloring stains out of chef’s whites, how to tie my shoe laces, how to convincingly tell a teacher that I was sick yesterday when really Mum told me to take the day off so we could shop and eat Chinese food.

So to them. My Mother, my Grandmother, my Aunt. I thank you all very much, have a wonderful Mother’s Day, and don’t worry, all your efforts on me were not in vain!

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Disney with My Darling? Double Bonus!

Most of the time, James and I like the same kind of movies. Of course, I am not one for the horror filled, alien fests that he likes sometimes, and I can rarely sit through a hardcore male war movie. But there is always one type of movie that we have no problem agreeing upon.

Disney!

You have no IDEA how I was so delighted when I found this out. I have a boyfriend, and he will watch Disney with me, and enjoy it. ACTUALLY ENJOY IT. Even take me to Disney on Ice!

So slowly, since we started going out, we have bought and watched Disney movies, and loved every singing, dancing minute.

I am going to dig through my DVD’s and find some more Disney I know I have stashed away.

So far, we have made our way through Hercules, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, Lilo and Stitch, Tangled (at the movies of course, but soon to be here on DVD, hurrah!), Beauty and the Beast, Fantasia. I am sure there are others, but I can’t seem to remember! We have also compiled a… wish list. And boy, isn’t it a long one!

Next on our buying list is Tarzan, Mulan, and Cinderella and Aladdin when I can find them. Damn you Disney Vault!

Looks like Ebay will be my hotspot for a while.

I can not wait till I can watch all the classic Disney movies with my children.

Do you and your partner enjoy Disney? What about your children? Or what series is that series that you were surprised that your special half loved as well?

 

Oh, and if you love the music in the Disney movies, you will LOVE this guy. Singing solo, a whole bunch of my favourite Disney films, yay!

 

I also WANT TO GO TO DISNEYLAND ;; Why can’t I win the lotto?

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Who Do You Love?

Who has your heart?

What are they like?

If you could go anywhere with them, where would you go?

James has my heart.

He is funny, sweet, kind, does a great voice of a cat, a puppy, and a Frenchman. He can get cranky, and sometimes can be kinda jerky when the stress takes over, but thats okay because he always says he’s sorry. He brings me my keys when I have left them at his, he buys me frozen coke when I’m feeling down, diamond earrings when its special, and likes me how I look all over, even if I don’t.

If I could go anywhere with him, it would be to Paris, to London, to the Alps, to the Snow, to the Country Side, and up the aisle… or the sand covered beach, or the white sheet in a garden strewn with falling autumn leaves.

Would you like to answer my questions? I would love to hear about who you love.

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"Love is someone seeing the beauty in you and wanting to bask in it every day all day. Love is not guaranteed. We are not owed love. That’s why when we get it, we know how lucky we are and hold on to it for dear life."

Ryan O’Connell

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A Rainbow of Paper Cranes for My Mother

Last time Mum went into hospital, I made her an owl! You can see it it at my Tumblr OneTwoThreeBounce! here.

A few days ago, after work, I went to my oh so favourite book store Kinokuniya, and found they were having a craftbook sale! So I picked up an Origami book I was looking at for a while, complete with paper, for 5$. Bargin!

I’ve always been fascinated by the idea of Paper Cranes. The Crane in Japan, is a mystical, holy creature, said to live for a thousand years, and they say if you make a thousand paper cranes, you will be grated a wish by a Crane.

One thing that those often wish for, is healing from illness and sickness.

So this is why I am making something for my mother.

I do not have the time to make a thousand such cranes, but I thought if I make her something, then maybe some of the magic will rub off on her.

So I am going to make her a mobile of colorful cranes to hang on the wall of her hospital room.

I have finally made enough, and all I have to do is string them up!


 

I was thinking of using a nice bit of branch, white thread, and twine to create a natural feel. I also wanted to make some origami hearts spelling out…

I LOVE YOU MUM.

Do you think she we like it? I’ll post photos when I am done!

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Dear You, Love Me.

Dear You,

It is late, and I needed to tell you this in my own words, and not some emotional spoken jumble.

I see all these photos of children, of babies, of women with swollen bellies.

Of proud new mothers, of doll houses and spaceship shaped candles.

I can’t help it, I look down at my own stomach, hold my hands over that spot and imagine what it will be like to feel our child grow inside me.

I do it sometimes, you know? Kind of press my stomach out a bit and just dream.

I remember when you were sitting on the couch, crying and frusterated, weeping to me how you ‘just wanted to make a life with me.’

And I see you so happy, I see you racing to our phone to tell your mother, and showing ultrasounds to your cousins, and picking out baby bottles with Lucy.

And I see you pressing your hands, and then your ear ever so gently to my stomach so you can hear the tiny sound of a heartbeat.

The thought of it just makes me cry.

I am scared.

You know I do not do well with pain, it frightens me. It scares me. It brings me to the point where I want to run and hide and cry and shout and scream in terror until it all goes away.

Having a child, I have no fear, I have the utmost confidence that we will be the very best parents that we can be. It is the HAVING of the child that brings me to tears.

And I am sure that I am not the first to go through this.

But it can’t stop me wondering whether or not I will be strong enough, will be able to stand the pain of it, and it brings me to tears again.

But even though I know none of that, I do know this.

It will be the proudest day of my life when our child comes into the world.

And even if I do come out of the experience a little bit scarred.

I will look at you with our child, whatever it shall be, and all of it will go away.

But things may change, we are still young, we still have our lives to lead, things to prepare, a home to make.

But when we are ready, I promise you I will try my very best to stay strong.

And those times when I’m not, I know I will be able to rely on you to be strong for me.

I love you.

Always, Me.

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"You see, I love you and I don’t want to loose you because my life has been better since the day I found you."

— I miss him so much right now ;; I wish I was with him.

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The Best Day of My Life

I have recently joined BlogThis!, which is a great Australian bloggers website to help people connect!

They also have some great challenges, so this is me doing my very first.

So. The best day of my life.

Honestly, only one day comes to mind.

As corney as it sounds, it was the day that my darling boy James finally got together, and the day he told me he loved me.

It was nine months ago now. It was April the 12th, and I stayed at his the night before. I was wearing a floaty black skirt, a top and gold flats. He drove me to Warringah Mall to get me leggings, bless him.

My mother was in hospital then, and he took me to see her, he stayed by my side and held my hand when I was scared to enter through the doors. He held me when I was panicking afterwards because she was so sick. He made me feel so much better.

We also went to the Easter show that day.

We had hopped on the train from Redfern, and as we were going up the escalators, he mumbled something about love.

“I think I’m in love with you.”

I just blinked, did I hear right?

So we walked on, and he took my hand and didnt let it go.

We saw the animals and the craft and the paintings and we didn’t go near the cakes. We walked and we talked and we laughed and we bought so many showbags, cause you know, thats really why you go to the Easter Show.

And through this whole day, he didn’t let go of my hand.

We also went to a movie that day with a few of our friends. I can’t remember what, I’m sure if I looked through my massive collection of used movie tickets I would find out which one, but eh. Who cares? He was still holding my hand.

And so we went home.

We started talking in the car again, I knew something was there, I just knew it, and I didn’t want to let it escape again. I was afraid as soon as we got back to his, the spell would be broken by his parents and we would never get to talk it out.

But his mother was angry, she was angry that James had both gone to the Easter show AND the movies when he owed her so much money. This was the best thing that could have happened, and we just fled to his room.

And we just laid on his bed and talked. And talked. And talked.

But sometimes you just need the safety of the dark to reveal secrets, and to be brave enough to do what you really want to do.

We slowly cuddled together as we talked. And as we talked more came out, and more, all our secret truths and wishes and dreams.

And I kissed him.

And he let me.

The first was fleeting. He was nervous. But the second was deeper, and longer, and it was oh so good.

There was nothing more, no lower touches or frenzied coupling or making out. There were kisses, and talking, and holding, and more kisses.

Everything came out like a wave, he told me everything, everything he was feeling.

How much he loved me, and how beautiful I was, and how happy he made me, how he wanted to marry me, how I was his life and his soul and his heart.

And I believed it all.

You spend a lifetime looking for the bad ones, focusing on those who hurt you, thinking that everyone else will be the same.

But then you see that everyone is not like that.

I believe every word that he says. Even when I think I don’t. Even if I scoff when he tells me I am beautiful. Even if I shrug it off when he says he likes my singing, or I’m the most perfect girl to him in the world.

I hope he knows that.

And I love him more than anything else in the world.

This was the best day in my life.



And perhaps when on my birthday he took me to Disney on Ice. Hey, your special someone has to REALLY love you to sit through two hours of Disney, surrounded by little kids and their parents.

And he bought me a Stitch mug.



He’s awesome.


What was yours?


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Writing, the Love hits you like a Wave.

This is me, bearing my soul completely. It is a bit long, but I would love some feedback, but if it seems too deep for your taste, then that is okay. But since many of you are writers, then I hope you understand what I am currently going through.

This post is littered with excerpts from my most beloved story, which you will find out about if you read on, please be kind.

I’ve had this strange feeling inside my chest for about three days now.

A tightness, an ache, like I’m craving something, like something is trying to get out, I’m missing something terribly.

No no, it’s nothing medical, I am not suffering of a broken heart, I do not have cravings for chocolate or peanut butter or mini bocconcini’s.

While I was staying another long stint at James’, I felt a little niggling in the back of my mind. I started to think back to my HSC, and my major works.

For all of my teenage life, I was a writer, I wanted to be a writer, I would read and read and read and write pages upon pages upon pages.
I would stay up to all hours, fill up the backs of my school folders, spend my pocket money on pens and pretty notebooks.

“Looking for this healer?” Kasimir’s voice was cold and disturbing, and made a shiver run through the healer’s spine. He spun around and clenched his teeth, as he watched the blonde float in mid air before him, his head resting on his chest. Kasimir touched his middle and forefinger to the blonde’s forehead, and grinned as he tensed, and a yelp of pain escaped the smaller man’s lips. “Very interesting… oh yes… defiantly, in trouble with the villagers are you? Seems like you both partook in something that you were not supposed to… mmm, he has veeery strong feeling for you this one.”


Cry when I could’nt get the words out, smile when i did, crave comments, read it over and over again, rewrite, write, correct, tear it up, write it again.

It was my passion.

And how I adored it. I was proud of it. I won awards. I used to think about, how when I started work, I would be able to get through the repetition of being a Pastry Chef by having my stories, writing, in the front of my mind.

Then somehow, after my schooling ended, I started working, and well, it took a backseat. And when I felt like I wanted to write, the words would not come.

This made me frantic and depressed, that I had lost something special and I would never get it back.

Kahn simply nodded and hoisted Christopher higher up his back; the blonde sighed and tightened his hold on the healer’s neck. From the pace of his breathing and from the lack of speech, it seemed as though he had started to drift off. He smiled at Christopher’s soft hair brushing against the side of his face, ‘I’ll protect you, I promise.’

But now, things are different.

I realise now, that when I had thought I wanted to write, I really didnt want to, I had never felt the way I do now.

I want to write.

A few days ago, I thought of one of my lost stories. The story I had put almost a year of solid work into, only to be stuck with the word limit and leave for a series of short stories.

“I have chosen… but you would not want a share in this power young one?” he took Christopher’s hand, and covered it with his own, causing him to tinge red around the cheeks. “Why wouldn’t you want any part of this? When you can obviously do great things…”

I found the incomplete novel of my Extension Two English Major work on my harddrive, and read it, and read every single word document associated with it, and read them again. And again.

And my heart just ached.

I burst into tears, I felt my love for my creations flooding back into me, and I cried and cried and I read it again and again.

Today was a blur, as I worked and dealt with the stress of it, my characters were in the background.

Kasimir.

He was a gorgeous sight to behold; there was no doubt about that. His blonde hair shone in the light of the fire, more white than gold, and his eyes were defiantly unique, one blue and one green. His physique was perfect, strong and defined, with tanned skin. But the anger pent up inside him, the evil emotions and state of mind masked him, and the darkened looks clouded the beauty of his eyes.


Christopher.

He turned his head tiredly to look at Christopher, who was peacefully asleep in the bed, curled onto his side with the blankets drawn up to his chin. His shock of blonde hair now clean from the bath, it was still somewhat damp and left his pillow darkened with moisture, but it did not faze him. Such beauty and it was all his. Kahn had really never gotten over the fact that Christopher was in love with him, it was by some divine action in heaven that he had come to him.


Kahn.

He scrubbed a hand over his own face, feeling the scar tissue and crevasses that his injury had cost him years ago, he traced the scar down his face and neck, and down the material of his shirt and pants to where it reached down past his navel. His hand then trailing over to his left shoulder, where another wound was deep.

Kahn knew he was not perfect, his skin was marred by scars and markings, not smooth and creamy like the blonde’s. His right eye was white, the scar damaging it beyond repair, Christopher’s eyes were green and bright, and held much life within them. But was focused on showing Kahn the beauty within him.


Mana.

The spirit was a picture of beauty, her honey brown hair was short, falling to her shoulders, beside a long braid down the right side of her face. She was dressed in fur leggings, crude but sturdy leather boots, the rest of her clothes was made with simple material, all except the gold band that adorned her head. The only thing that seemed unusual about her was the simple design that seemed like it was burnt into her skin.


And Seneca.

His black hair shined in the little light from the fire, and he closed his eyes, only to open them again and stare directly at him. The young man was in slight awe at the color, such a deep and alluring blue. They looked kind, but changed completely when he turned his gaze towards the men bothering him. Christopher whimpered and stared pleadingly at the man, who frowned and stood up from his seat. He was tall, and the intensity of his beauty made Christopher blush, he was dressed in some rather unusual clothes, silks and soft cotton; he too was out of place in this dark and troublesome hole.


That was all I could think about.

I could not believe I had left them behind.

I had characters before, I have characters now, but these were the first.

So I have made a promise.

I will start to write again. Little by little.

I have bought a little pretty notebook, just like old times, and I shall start there.

And hopefully, one day soon, I shall be able to rewrite this story that I miss so much.

Do not worry, my dear friends, I shall bring you to life again soon.

In a little cottage upon the outskirts of the town, the last embers of the fire glowed in the grate, and Christopher awoke with a start, panting heavily, shooting up into a sitting position in the bed.

“Christopher? Love, what is wrong?” The blonde turned to face his lover who sat up in the bed next to him, hands stroking over his hair and shoulders in a soothing manner that he loved.

Christopher paused for a moment, eyes searching Kahn’s eyes, one grey and one white. But he simply smiled, pressing a gentle kiss to the older man’s lips, and moving into his arms once again.

“It is nothing, let us sleep.”

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